As in “Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans” (from John Lennon).
I was on top of things this week. Or I was at the beginning. Blog posts, work, revisions all ticking along nicely. I even had a plan about how things are going to be in the next few months. Done, I thought. Now I can just get on and do my stuff. You know churning out x words a day, every day.
And that is when life came knocking. Nothing shattering, nothing awful just the unexpected which made most of those plans unworkable. So now the blog is late, revisions have stalled and the next few months are all over the place. I am discombobulated to say the least. Now every thing is whirling round my head as I try and juggle it all. The easy rhythm of revisions has stuttered to nothing. Damn.
It was a timely reminder that I have to be more flexible. I am a planner/project manager by trade and I instinctively take tasks and break them down to the basics and work out the critical path. This works reasonably well with IT projects and building projects but not so much with other stuff. Stuff where it turns out other people have been making plans too... and they got theirs out there first. I'm not sure everyone got the memo that I was in charge... ;-)
I suppose it isn’t any different to how characters in a novel feel. There they are making plans when BAM we, the author, make life happen to them. Maybe this is my comeuppance? I have been being nasty to my heroine and she’s had a word with someone and I am getting my just deserts.
All I ask is that I get a happy ending…
Come back on Sunday to see what has been happening in Susanna’s life…
It's soooooo flustrating when 'stuff' happens and gets in the way of our best laid plans. Good luck Brigid!
ReplyDeleteI love feeling like I'm in charge of things too, but like you said, life tends to have other ideas sometimes! Maybe it's a mild form of OCD, wanting to control everything? It's much better just to go with the flow, isn't it. Can be very hard though I find ...
ReplyDeleteHate it when things go awry...control freak moi? yes. Good luck with the chaos.
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When the dust settles, you can get back at your heroine so she remembers who's really the boss. ;)
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